Being someone's Valentine involves spoiling the person with romantic gestures for the day and being on the receiving end of the person's romantic gestures in return. Some Valentines are in romantic relationships, although it is possible for two people to be Valentines without officially dating one another.
Women appreciate knowing their partners listen to them and value their interests, so a man can win over his Valentine by taking her to a dream destination she has mentioned always wanting to visit. Another thoughtful gesture is to pamper his date with an at-home massage or a relaxing bubble bath. Sending the Valentine to the spa for a day of pampering is nice, but doing the pampering himself makes the experience more personal and sensual.
A woman can make Valentine's Day memorable for her date by dressing up in the types of clothes he most likes to see her in. Wearing that pair of heels he finds sexy or that dress he loves shows the Valentine that she considered him when getting ready for the romantic day rather than just dressing for herself. Another thing she can do is rent a hotel to give the couple some alone time away from their usual settings. Ordering breakfast in bed at the hotel makes her date feel even more special.