To make wedding night intimacy more enjoyable, both partners should relax and communicate with one another. Sharing desires and communicating expectations will build trust and lead to a more supportive and intimate environment. Limit alcohol intake, prepare special surprises such as candles or lingerie, and eliminate distractions or interruptions to help make the night a memorable and enjoyable experience.
Try relaxing together with a hot bath or use massage oils to rub one another down. Upgrade the honeymoon suite, if possible, and take advantage of the luxurious surroundings. Create a playlist that sets the mood, or use an online radio station, such as one set for Spanish classical guitar. Be prepared with lubrication and other supplies, including birth control, if desired. Seductive lingerie, clean and well-groomed bodies, roses, chocolate, and champagne are just some of the additional extras that can spice up an evening.
Focus on one another, and remove distractions from the room to create a more intimate environment. Turn off televisions and cell phones. Be sure to place the "Do not disturb" sign on the door, and ask the hotel to hold all calls to the room. Make sure that friends or family won't interrupt on this special night.
The pressure to create the perfect experience can be very intense. It is important to remember that the wedding night is just the first of many nights together as a married couple. This is the start of a journey, and the best way to make it an enjoyable experience is for both partners to be open and experience it fully with one another.