Some strategies for starting a conversation with a female stranger include commenting on shared surroundings, using humor, and asking open-ended questions. These techniques offer a better shot at engaging a stranger than random comments or compliments.
One of the easiest and most effective strategies for striking up conversation is to start with a comment that has some context for both people. Rather than a generic compliment that could be directed at any girl, consider something that is relevant to her surroundings. This type of approach indicates that a man is paying attention, not just mindlessly chasing an attractive woman. It could be anything from a comment on the music that’s playing to a girl’s choice of groceries, but creating a shared moment is much more likely to attract a girl’s interest. Using humor is much less precise, but a funny comment with context is more likely to get a reaction than an unfunny one.
Another effective approach is to ask open-ended questions that can’t be answered with a simple yes or no. A question with an either/or answer, such as choosing between two different items or options, provides more ample opportunities to continue the conversation. Whatever the girl’s response, disagreeing with her in a playful, humorous way can help draw her interest and let the conversation develop.