Encourage a family member with cancer by visiting or calling, helping around the house, coordinating donations or visits, giving gifts and providing emotional support, suggests the American Cancer Society. Taking care of yourself physically and emotionally helps you stay positive and encouraging, notes WebMD.
Offer a trustworthy ear to listen to the family member with cancer to provide emotional support. Calling the person strong or brave may put pressure on the person to always act that way, says the American Cancer Society. Simply listening and allowing the person to share her feelings gives her an outlet to deal with the emotions of the diagnosis.
Helping around the house frees the person to focus on her health condition. Arrange child care, provide meals, run errands or provide transportation to support and encourage the patient. Treatments may leave her exhausted, sick or cause mood changes, according to WebMD. Help when you can, but allow her to maintain as much independence as possible by keeping her involved in family activities.
Accompanying the family member to appointments is a way to support and encourage her. Take notes at the appointment so the patient can focus on interacting with the doctor. Help her think of questions before the appointment, suggests WebMD.