She states that she competed in beauty pageants when she was young, placing in the top 10 in the Miss Pre-teen Los Angeles competition and going to Florida to compete in the nationals. She stopped competing at age 13, citing the cattiness of the other competitors.
Tucci was working as a cake decorator in a bakery when she answered an ad in the LA Weekly. Her first scene was with Lexington Steele in Balls Deep 6. She started working under the alias "Flower" due to her having tattoos of flowers and vines along her spine, but later added "Tucci" as a means to differentiate herself from an earlier Asian actress.
In addition to performing in pornographic films, Flower formerly hosted two radio shows on the now defunct adult radio station KSEX radio, called The Porn Hunnies Smut Top 20 and one called Tushy Talk. She is a spokesperson and model for the Los Angeles based clothing company Mofowear and has a recurring role on the Showtime series Family Business.
Note that there is conflicting information about Tucci's birth date. Her listing at the IAFD and AFDB both say she was born on January 2, 1977. However, a MySpace page (presumably made by Tucci) states she was born on January 2, 1981 and she has said that is her birthdate as well in an interview with Porn Valley News.
Tucci is currently represented by the adult talent agency Spiegler Girls.