In Catholic and Orthodox Christian belief, Mary alone is counted as a direct blood relative due to the doctrine of Perpetual Virginity, Joseph only as a foster father, and the rest as close relatives with no direct blood ties, such as step-siblings or cousins. In Protestant Christian belief, the desposyni include his mother Mary, his cousin John the Baptist (); as well, his brothers as named in the New Testament: James the Just, Joses, Simon and Jude. In Ebionite belief, Joseph is viewed as the biological father of Jesus.
Different sects of Christians hold broadly divergent interpretations of what actual relation the family members listed in and may have had with Jesus, as a mortal or in his risen manifestation as "the Christ". Eastern Christianity, following Eusebius, believes that they were "Joseph's children by his (unrecorded) first wife." Roman Catholicism, following , , and agrees with Jerome that they were Jesus' cousins, sons of another Mary, the wife of Cleopas, which the Greek word for "brother" or "relative" used in the Gospels would encompass. Following Hegesippus, Clopas was the brother of Joseph, and Simon was the cousin of Jesus. Both beliefs agree with the tradition that Mary remained a perpetual virgin, thus having no biological children before or after Jesus. While such notable reformers as Luther, Calvin, and Zwingli as well as the 18th Century evangelist Wesley affirmed the perpetual virginity of Mary, most Protestants today believe that these family members were in fact the biological children of Mary and Joseph.
According to the Synoptic Gospels, and particularly the Gospel of Mark, Jesus was once teaching a large crowd near the home of his own family, and when this came to their attention, his family went to see him and "they" (not specified) said that Jesus is "...out of his mind."
In the narrative of the Synoptic Gospels, and of the Gospel of Thomas, when Jesus' mother and brothers are outside the house that Jesus is teaching in, Jesus tells the crowd that whoever does what God wills would constitute his mother and brothers (Thomas 99). According to Kilgallen, Jesus' answer was a way of underlining that his life had changed to the degree that his family were far less important than those that he teaches about the Kingdom of God. The Gospel of John states that Jesus' brothers did not believe in him, because he wouldn't perform miracles with them at the Feast of Tabernacles.
There is much disagreement over whether the brothers referred to by these narratives are actual brothers or merely stepbrothers or cousins - argued to be valid translations for the underlying Greek term (adelphos). The official Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox doctrine is that Mary was a perpetual virgin, and so could not have had any other children besides Jesus, thus making these Jesus's stepbrothers, sons of Joseph by another, unrecorded marriage (since according to Christian doctrine Joseph was not Jesus' biological father, such children would have no relation to Jesus whatsoever), or cousins. Only Tertullian seems to have questioned this in the early Church. Islam also holds that Mary was a perpetual virgin as did many of the early Protestants, although many Protestants today do not hold to the doctrine of perpetual virginity, and would thus believe that these are Mary's children.
The negative view of Jesus' family portrayed in Acts and the Gospels may be related to the conflict between Paul of Tarsus and Jewish Christians, who held Jesus family in high regard, for example at the Council of Jerusalem.
Hegesippus (c.110-c.180) wrote five books of Commentaries on the Acts of the Church. They are lost, but a few fragments are quoted by Eusebius in Historia Ecclesiae, 3.20. Among them is the following relation, ascribed to the reign of Domitian (81-96):
In "The Ecclesiastical History", Eusebius records an account by Sextus Julius Africanus recorded the following concerning the family:
The controversial Irish priest Malachi Martin, without giving a legitimate reference, noted in "The Decline and Fall of the Roman Church" that:
Matthat bar Levi
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Eleazar |
| Heli/Eliakim
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Matthan ________|____________
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Mary + = Joseph (1st) = Clophas (2nd)
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Jesus | | | | | |
5 B.C.- A.D. 28. | | | | | |
James Jose Judas Simon Mary Salome
d.A.D. 62 | d.A.D. 101
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Zechariah James
alive in the reign of Domitian
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Mary=Joseph Cleopas=Mary
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| | | | | | | Simeon
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Jesus James Joses Simon Sister Sister Jude
d.62 |
| Menahem
Jude ____|____
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Elzasus James Zoker
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Nascien |
Bishop Judah Kyriakos
fl.c.148-149.
In the film Dogma, the main character, Bethany, is the many-times great granddaughter of one of Jesus' younger siblings.
Popular culture often outright denies biological siblings of Jesus. The phrase "Jesus was an only son" occurs in numerous songs, including the Bruce Springsteen song of the same name from his Devils & Dust album, and also occurs as a lyric in The Smashing Pumpkins' song Bullet With Butterfly Wings and the Lyle Lovett song Lungs.