Kevin O'Brien, usually known as
Brother Kevin (
October 31,
1955 -
February 27,
2008), was an
Independent Baptist clergyman who pastored Bethany Baptist Church in
Lubbock,
Texas, from October 1996, until his death at the age of fifty-two from
prostate cancer. In 1998, O'Brien was among a group of
fundamentalist pastors instrumental in the establishment of
Heartland Baptist Bible College in
Oklahoma City, which was renamed and relocated from
Orange, California, where it had been founded in 1966. At the time of his death, O'Brien was serving as a director and as the secretary-treasurer of Heartland.
Early years, education, family
O'Brien was born in
El Paso, to Claude L. and Angeline E. O'Brien. He graduated from Irvin
High School in northeast El Paso in 1974.. He then completed a three-year
Bachelor of Theology program at
Baptist Bible College in
Springfield, Missouri, from which he graduated in 1977. On
June 12,
1976, O'Brien married his childhood sweetheart, the former Darlene Frances Turbeville (born ca. 1958). Their three children are Jeremy Daniel O'Brien, Jenilee Danielle O'Brien Prater (husband Tyler Prater) and Juliana Dawn O'Brien Carr (husband Nicholas Siler Carr). There was also a grandson, Griffyn O'Brien, at the time of O'Brien's passing.
On
December 12,
2007, the stricken O'Brien performed a hasty wedding for Juliana and Nicholas at the VistaCare
hospice in Lubbock, where he was staying because it appeared that he might not survive beyond a couple of days. The hospice provided a wedding cake, decorations,
flowers, a reception, and a
photographer. O'Brien improved well enough to return home for
Christmas and to have his daughter's scheduled church wedding on
January 12, 2008. In the following weeks, however, his condition continued to deteriorate. On
February 22, Bethany Baptist opened for twenty-four hours a day so that interested persons could come to pray at the altar for the pastor's recovery. He died five days later.
Bethany Baptist Church in Lubbock
Upon graduation from BBC, O'Brien joined the Bethany Baptist Church staff. The church opened on
August 15,
1973, under the founding pastor, Ross Junior Spencer (born
June 12,
1933) of Lubbock, originally from tiny
Detroit in
Red River County near
Paris in northeast Texas. The associate pastor, J.D. Young, later ministered in
Corpus Christi and pastors the Victory Baptist Church in
Stinnett, the seat of
Hutchinson County in the northern
Texas Panhandle. O'Brien was, first, the music and youth minister, then associate pastor, co-pastor, and full pastor on Spencer's retirement from full-time ministry. Spencer thereafter was interim pastor in
Andrews near
Midland. Under Spencer, Bethany church conducted three week-long
revival services per year and observed homecoming and other special events. Bethany supported a
Jack Hyles appearance in
Snyder, the seat of
Scurry County south of Lubbock. Former
Louisiana Governor James Houston "Jimmie" Davis of
Baton Rouge, a
gospel singer, addressed one of the early homecoming ceremonies.Still another Bethany guest was the evangelist
Curtis Hutson, editor of
The Sword of the Lord newspaper.
Gospel singer, pianist, preacher
O'Brien's singing abilities were considered to have been exceptional, and he was also a
pianist and a piano technician. He was particularly adept at reaching young people and preached frequently at summer camps. Bethany Baptist Church under O'Brien's direction dispatched several men into the ministry and to the mission field. The church gave some $1.2 million to world evangelism. O'Brien, and Spencer before him, supported a bus ministry that brings persons from all backgrounds to church services, many being children of a lower socio-economic class who otherwise lack ready transportation.
O'Brien was a well-known preacher in Independent Baptist ranks too. He was affiliated with the
King James-Only Movement, which accepts the
Authorized King James Version of the
Bible, the manuscript which supporters contend is more conducive to the reception of the
Holy Spirit and more helpful in memorizing and understanding scripture. For a time, O'Brien also preached over
radio in Lubbock. Some of his sermons have been placed on the
Internet, including "Is Anything Too Hard for the Lord?" (Genesis 18:14 and Jeremiah 32:17.
In 1998, Bethany presented two dramatic presentations highlighting the
patriotism of
George Washington,
Abraham Lincoln,
Benjamin Franklin,
Betsy Ross, and Generals
Douglas MacArthur and
George S. Patton, Jr. In an interview with the
Lubbock Avalanche-Journal, O'Brien said that there was "a need to for the nation to turn back to the Lord" and that presentations of this kind, which brought full attendance, served to acquaint people with the spiritual heritage of the nation. He said that the
Constitution of the United States protects the church from encroachment by
government, not government from being influenced by Bible believers.
Heartland College
O'Brien committed his last years to Heartland Baptist College, which forbids non-fundamentalists from speaking and teaching at the institution to reduce the possibility of
heretical divisions and doubts within conservative biblical circles. O'Brien said that ministry students did not need dissenters from Scripture to promote open dialogue but reinforcement of biblical truth. The school, which uses the slogan "Love Never Fails", is unaccredited and does not seek
accreditation from government or regional educational associations. Therefore, it cannot issue degrees but offers
diplomas to students who complete the instructional program.
Education majors at Heartland can teach only in Christian institutions, not
public schools.
Personal life
O'Brien was a
motorcyclist too and often took sojourns with fellow Christian men to the
Texas Hill Country and
Big Bend National Park in southwest Texas. He and Mrs. O'Brien also toured parts of
Colorado and
Arkansas on his cycle.
In addition to his wife, children, and parents, O'Brien was survived by two brothers, Ronald O'Brien (
son-in-law of Ross Spencer) and wife Patricia of
Garland, Texas, and David O'Brien of
Dallas, and his sisters, Karen O. Smith of El Paso and Tricia O. Pritchett of
San Antonio. Services were held on
March 4, 2008, at Bethany Baptist Church. Some sixty pastors, one as far away as
Washington, came to Lubbock for O'Brien's funeral. Officiating were pastor Billy E. Prater (the father of O'Brien's son-in-law, Tyler Prater) of the Fellowship Baptist Church of
Liberal, Kansas, and William "Bill" Mitchell of Hillcrest Baptist Church, which O'Brien had attended as a youth. Prater and Mitchell are both members of the Heartland College board of directors. Interment was in Resthaven Memorial Park in Lubbock.
Tributes to O'Brien
Tim Spradling, an O'Brien friend and Bethany member, recalled in an interview with Beth Pratt, the religion editor of the
Lubbock Avalanche-Journal, O'Brien's last
Easter sermon in 2007, which celebrated the resurrection of
Jesus Christ and His ultimate victory over evil and death: "His faith was that the Lord is in absolute control . . . Like any of the rest of us, he didn't want to leave his family, his church, his friends, but he had a deep abiding faith in the Lord that became even deeper in the last year and a half. When you face your own
mortality, it's different. You have questions, but you get closer to the Lord, closer to each other, and stronger in faith. We still ask why, and a lot of whys won't be answered. That's where your faith comes in."
Delwayne Ivey, the Bethany youth minister who was named associate pastor after O'Brien's illness, called his mentor "an eternal
optimist. . . . He was easy to get along with, full of grace . . . a man very strong in his faith; he never complained or blamed God. He just praised the Lord."
Jason Smith, the associate and youth pastor at Lubbock Baptist Temple, in his website STL (Speaking the Truth in Love), offered this tribute to O'Brien:
"You were always an inspiration to me. In a day of
compromise, you were always a man of conviction. You were who you were right to the end of your life. You never let suffering, fear of man, or anything weaken your faith. Did you ever wonder if it was worth it? Did you ever think about giving up? Did you know the impact your ministry had? God used in such a special way in my life, and I know your ministry will live on in those whom you invested yourself, which were many. . . . We give thanks for the life you lived and the life you are living now. . . .
Doyle Sooter, another Bethany member, described O'Brien as a great
raconteur and "your best friend in life, no matter who you were. . . . He showed us how to live by how he lived. There was never a material bone in his body. He was the most remarkable man I've ever met."
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