In 1944, Durbrow was appointed as the chief of the Eastern European division of the US State Department in Washington, D.C.. That year, he was also one of the American delegates at the United Nations Monetary and Financial Conference, which set up the International Bank for Reconstruction and Development, the General Agreement on Tariffs and Trade (GATT), the International Monetary Fund (IMF) and the Bretton Woods system of money management. After World War II, Durbrow was vocal in his opposition for the diplomatic recognition of newly formed governments in Hungary, Romania and Bulgaria because of their Communist origins. In 1946, he left this position to succeed George F. Kennan as the Counselor of Embassy and Deputy Chief of Mission in Moscow, under the US ambassador to the Soviet Union and future Central Intelligence Agency Director, Walter Bedell Smith. In this role, he warned Smith and others of Soviet expansionism and efforts to break up the Western world. From 1948 to 1950, he served as an adviser to the National War College in Washington, D.C., and then spent the next two years as director of the Foreign Service's personnel division. In 1952, he was sent to Italy where he served as deputy chief of mission to the US Ambassador to Italy, Clare Boothe Luce. Two years later, he was promoted to the diplomatic rank of Career Minister.
On March 14, 1957, President Dwight D. Eisenhower named Durbrow as the United States Ambassador to South Vietnam. At the time, the US had a minor military and political presence in Vietnam due to government's goal of preventing Communism from taking over the region. Durbrow had a difficult time in his ambassadorial role. He had to frequently work with the authoritarian regime of Ngo Dinh Diem and the corruption and ineffective policymaking that accompanied it. Vietnamese officers, disgruntled with Diem's government, tried to persuade Durbrow into joining anti-Diem groups. Durbrow, who began to feel uneasy about Diem's authority, had to refuse because the US government was still in support of Diem.
In 1960, Diem and his younger brother and chief political adviser Ngo Dinh Nhu accused Durbrow of supporting a failed coup attempt by paratroopers of the Army of the Republic of Vietnam. In April 1961, the newly elected American President John F. Kennedy formed a committee to assess the political, military and socioeconomic situation in Vietnam, with the hope of determining what it would take to keep Communism out of South Vietnam. On April 16, Kennedy replaced Durbrow with Frederick Nolting, who pursued a policy of appeasement. Afterwards, Durbrow served as a delegate to the NATO council in Paris and later as a government adviser to the National War College and the Air University.
Durbrow died at his home in Walnut Creek, California on May 16, 1997 from complications of a stroke. He was survived by his second wife, Benice Balcom Durbrow, and two sons from his first marriage, Chandler and Bruce.